Question:

Why do some women and men go through great lengths to look  more cosmo. attractive; when their  betroves shortly find out the natural truth anyway. Why not just be themselves to begin with?  -Ester H. Joesph, Facebook Status

B’s Answer:

For a large part, the reason many of us disguise ourselves is because we are simply sick and toxic and it shows visually; we hate the way we look and feel and don’t know what to do about it.

I use to tell my daughters, (who are now 23 and 20) if you put fingernail polish and lipstick on a big fat and nasty looking woman she’s gonna just look like a big fat and nasty woman with polish and lipstick. What the heavy unkempt woman could do to dramatically overhaul herself is to clean up her diet, the things she puts into her body, and her mind.

She should make sure she is eating only the natural foods from the earth unprocessed and unpoisoned by industial chemicals.

Once she does that she’d wake up in the morning feeling wonderful about the person she actually is.

Unfortunately, that won’t ever happen – not honestly, until she is willing to accomplish good physical and mental health, through proper nourishment and spirituality/mental state. (That’s where she should put her energy and time.) Until then her unconscious self will just keep trying to trick people in vein.

The truth is until she does the real makeover, she’s only gonna in up with other sick, unconscius people just like herself, and they will embark upon for the most part a sick and unconscious relationship. (It’s the law of how things work)

So, I suppose the message here for anyone interested is. Miss unclean, unkempt, and unconscious shouldn’t waste time on disguises – they don’t really work. She should find her own beauty in what’s pure and natural, what she puts on, and into her body; she should work dilligently on her innerself and the outerself would transform and flower remarkably, naturally.  Everything else is just wall paper. -Billie Jordan